Welcome to Dating: The Setup

“Why can’t we just take care of each other and love each other the way we are meant to and how we all deserve?” 

“We all have stories about trying to bridge the gap of finding our person. Some of us have had better experiences than others. For example, I am a young Black woman who has never fried chicken, and that apparently, to some, means I am never going to get a man. Statements like these and many other out-of-pocket things are my reality.

I want to speak on my experience with those who identify with me. Even if you don’t see yourself, come along for the ride. For those in my shoes, I want to let you know that you aren’t alone. I want women to feel included and men to realize some truths and relate to some tidbits as well. Writing, for me, is as therapeutic as mimosas. So, let’s have a drink and share.”

Excerpt From: Nikki Akinyi McKenzie. Chapter 1: The Setup. “#RelationshipStatus.” Apple Books.